- In a medium saucepan, combine raspberries, sugar, and water. 
- Cook over medium heat, stirring constantly until the mixture is homogenous. 
- Once thickened, remove from heat and let it cool completely. 
- Preheat your oven to 350°F (175°C). Grease and flour a 9x13 inch sheet pan or line it with parchment paper. 
- In a large mixing bowl, cream together the butter and sugar until light and fluffy. 
- Beat in the eggs one at a time, then stir in the vanilla extract. 
- Combine the flour, baking powder, and salt in another bowl. 
- Gradually add the dry ingredients to the creamed mixture, alternating with milk. Start and end with the dry ingredients. Mix until just combined. 
- Pour the batter into the prepared 9x13 cake pan, spreading it out evenly. 
- Bake for 25-30 minutes, or until a toothpick inserted into the center of the cake comes out clean. 
- While the cake is still hot use a knife to place slits all over the cake. Pour the raspberry filling all over and let it soak into the cake. 
- Allow the cake to cool completely in the pan on a wire rack. 
- In a large bowl, beat the softened butter until creamy. 
- Gradually add powdered sugar, 1 cup at a time, beating on low until combined. 
- Add vanilla extract and mix well. 
- Adjust the consistency of the frosting with milk or heavy cream, adding one tablespoon at a time until you reach the desired consistency. 
- Once the cake has cooled, spread the frosting evenly over the cake. I like to place it into a piping bag using a star tip and pipe it over the cake. 
- Garnish with fresh raspberries.